Diana Marua has finally spoken shortly after living her matrimonial home telling people that they want her to live their marriages.
Diana had follen out with husband Bahati sighting imbalance in her husband’s priorities.
In their last episode of Being Bahati, Diana complained to Bahati for not being there for his family but instead being too busy outside.
She however was thankful that they don’t luck anything but would like her husband to make time for the baby.
In his defense, Bahati explained that he had a tight schedule organizing a tour and that he had a concert to be at. He went further and said that he does not work hard then there will be no food in the house.
Diana congratulated Bahati for his hard work but she wanted him to spare sometime for the children, to go out and do things as a family.
Bahati had none of that and left off for the concert only to come back and find his wife gone.
People were mad at Diana as to why she left her matrimonial home due to such a small conflict.
More reactions came in criticizing Diana for exposing her marriage life to the world when she could have handled it in a mature manner far from the cameras.
In response to all criticism, she today her situation as a mother calling out people that expect her to live their marriage life.
In a lengthy explanation Diana said;
“Okay!!!! So kidogo kidogo , pale Youtube people want me to live their marriage experiences? Once you get a baby, especially the first one, it’s a whole different experience all together and the least your partner can do is support you emotionally. Some women out here even men suffer from postpartum depression the first few months. And before you know it, you get emotionally drained and some even lock themselves up and cry their heart out.
There’s a lot that happens from not getting enough milk supply for your baby and she’s crying all the time coz she’s not well fed, not getting enough sleep (you’re literally a walking zombie), trying to figure out why your baby is being fussy even after having fed her and changed her diaper. There’s a shift between who you were before baby and now all this and more when baby gets here. These are things very few women will talk about.
No one has it all figured out and if you don’t have someone to keep reminding you that it’s a temporary phase and it gets easier and better by the day, I swear you’ll loose it. So this is where I was coming from… it wasn’t easy for us especially the first three months. So, it’s okay for some of you to not fully understand this.
Who said that I should calm down and act up ati when he cheats or doesn’t provide? Basi people out here are suffering on the inside with that said, I understand my man is very hardworking and we’ve never lacked and I appreciate him more for that however, I believe one has to find the perfect balance between his career and family.
For me, the best gift a man could ever give his woman is his time, attention and love. That’s my typical kind of world. So how you understand or don’t understand my perspective is up to you. PS: If you are a new mom and going through this and more…. it’s a phase!!! Every day it gets easier and better… you embrace the challenges.” Said Diana.