Shilole from Tanzania has on Wednesday exposed his husband as a violent man who has abused her despite loving him unconditionally.
In a long Instagram post, Shilole shares the shame she feels for being their for women who are being abused by their partners telling them to speak out.
She continues by narrating how shameful she feels for acting like her marriage was perfect but was filled with abuse and physical injuries.
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“Naandika haya, nikiwa na akili timamu na utulivu, La kwanza kabisa nataka kuomba radhi jamii yangu. Naomba radhi kwa sababu niliwaaminisha ndoa yangu haina tatizo, huku ukweli ukiwa hauko hivyo, nimekuwa mtu wa kuambulia vipigo na mengine yasiyozungumzika, Naomba radhi kwa sababu niliposikia wanawake wenzangu wakipigwa niliwaambia pazeni sauti, niliposikia mwanamke kule Kigamboni ameuwawa na kuchomwa moto niliomboleza na jamii na kusema Bora angesema”.. huku mimi nikijikausha na kujitoa kwenye kundi lao wakati ukweli wangu mimi ni mwenzao, Naomba radhi.”
Being a person who many look up to, Shilole decided to break the silence and described how her husband Ashrafu Sadiki was so heartless that he would not bother checking up on her even after beating her mercilessly.
“Mimi ni kioo cha jamii, tena sura kubwa ya wanawake. Leo numeona nivunje ukimya kwa kuweka wazi kwamba mume wangu Ashrafu Sadiki, maarufu kama Uchebe amekuwa akinipga sanaa, na tena hata baada ya kunipiga hajali kupiga simu wala kujua naendeleaje, nauguzwa na watu baki hospitali, na bado manyanyaso mengine yanayoikosesha hii ninayoiita ndoa uhai na furaha.””
In a addition to being a wife, she a mother fetching for her family and financing her husband hiding the shame in the name of marriage.
Shilole has admitted to have been fed up and she has officially departed her husband for the sake of her happiness and the future of her children.
She has also revealed that from now henceforth she will no longer use her husband’s second name.
The expose has left many celebrities in shock not knowing whats she was going through in the first place.
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