Recent statistics from the National Crime Reporting System have unveiled a disturbing reality. Over 40% of Kenyan women aged 15–49 have endured physical violence at least once in their lifetime. One in four experienced such violence within the last year.
Two recent incidents have further intensified concerns. On January 4, 2024, Starlet Wahu, a socialite, fell victim to a stabbing by a man. He is allegedly linked to a criminal ring targeting women on dating sites. Just six days later, on January 10, 2024, Rita Waeni was drugged and dismembered by a man she met in a rented apartment. Her body parts were discarded in plastic bags.
The incidents have ignited a robust debate on social media regarding the collective responsibility to safeguard women from violence. Questions have emerged about the safety of seeking companionship through dating apps and meeting strangers in enclosed spaces. The discourse emphasizes the need for caution and self-protection.
While the conversation has shifted towards women’s roles in putting themselves in potentially dangerous situations, it remains evident that prioritizing safety is paramount. The world, unfortunately, is not as safe for both genders as we might hope.
Acknowledging this reality, it is crucial to maintain open lines of communication with loved ones and disclose our whereabouts, especially when heading to unfamiliar locations. Background checks on individuals intended for intimate encounters and acquainting oneself with their family members can add an extra layer of protection.
In a world where “stranger danger” persists, these precautions may not shield everyone, but they could make a crucial difference in saving a life or two. It is a collective responsibility to foster a society where everyone, regardless of gender, can navigate daily life without the constant fear of violence.
